Handy tips to reach the Big O

What prompted me to write this piece was a marathon long session with a boyfriend who was cribbing about his date…he started the call with ..Minx, she faked and I could see through it!” I had half a mind to turn around and tell him…she faked because you failed! What is it that peaks us up…is it fantasy role play or is it being creative both in and outside the bedroom…what is it that makes our lust life exciting so much so that just thinking about it makes us reach a climax? It’s not just sex…it’s reaching the Big O which gets us going!

We acknowledge that great foreplay is what turns us on! It’s not just about ‘doing the act’. And when I say we, I do take the liberty for speaking on behalf of most of my coterie that the sensual dance of making love gives us the first Big O! And ofcourse, then follows the later bit.

To start off with, I would say if you are gunning for mind-blowing, bed-rattling orgasm for your partner, the cardinal rule is keeping it simple. Yes…you heard me right. Sure, wild, crazy, never-knew-my-body-could-bend-that-way booty keeps your lust life exciting, but if the goal of the moment is to break pleasure records, you have to stick to the basics.Trying to accomplish complicated acrobatics distracts you from the sex itself, putting your focus on how you can contort yourself, rather than on just experiencing the sensation.

And when you are ready to reach the Big Orgasm….we believe that the simplest positions are often also the best positions, and with a few modifications, you can make them even more 

Sex on a Platter

orgasm inducing than they already are.


It’s a nirvana moment for us…I would say! Because once we have attained the Big O, we are as content as a cat with a bowl of cream! Cliched, but a fact!


November 8, 2009. Uncategorized.

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